Abstract :
In family life will occur an interaction, adjustment, and socialization. Thus, in family life will happen interaction or influence each other. Especially on the wife who is married to husband different nationality and living in the country's husband as a mixed marriage. It is to be seen to anticipate the consequences. Therefore, a mixed marriage is a meeting between two different cultures, it is necessary to process and time to make adjustments in order to realize the goal of marriage marriage. The existence of such different backgrounds will display a variety of problems both to the husband, sexual, financial or family so that my husband needed a good marital adjustment. This study aims to determine the problems that occur on the wife's husband who lived in the country and how to make adjustments to the husband's marital, sexual, financial, family and husband. The approach used in this research uses a qualitative method, whereby the data obtained in the form of words from the subject of research by conducting in-depth interviews. The research subjects amounted to two people, the woman who became the wife of a man who has a different nationality, live in the country husband the husband with the family, and have been married a maximum of 5 years. The results showed that the problems experienced by the subjects, namely experienced culture shock because of differences in living habits. Against the husband, ie the difference in meaning of marriage, often experience the difference of understanding of the principles and views of life, fights for life habits and properties owned by husband, differences in patterns of parenting, and lack of understanding of the husband against the wishes of the subject. Sexual problems are not having problems there are only a couple of open and closed. Financial problems, namely the wasteful attitudes and differences in financial arrangements. And against the husband's family, which is experiencing a difference of principles and views concerning the meaning of life, difficulty adjusting procedures and rules of family, fights with family members, families who like to interfere, and the desire to live independently. As for how penyesuian conducted subject to the husband or husband's family, namely trying to understand, the problems that occurred did my best in talking about very carefully, preferring to live in and be patient of the problem into a protracted, following her husband to respect the family rules and to avoid so as not enemy.